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How have work friendships changed over the past few years, whether you work remotely, have a hybrid schedule, work in an office where other people have those options, or more? Some questions to kick off the discussion:
- If you’re still at the same job, are you still friendly with the same people you were in 2019? How have your relationships changed — are lunches more or less frequent? If you’re hybrid, have you tried to align your schedule with anyone who isn’t on your team?
- Have you found it harder to maintain any specific friendships? For example, friendships with a big age difference (and maybe differences in preferred technology), or friendships with coworkers of a different sex?
- If you have new coworkers, how have those relationships developed? Do you have new work friends? Do you think you’re closer with people who you see often (same hallway, same team) or have you found a few friendly coworkers who aren’t in your daily routine, but you’re well aligned in other ways (such as a shared hobby or background)?
- If you work primarily online, how have relationships formed? Do you have tiny side chats going with multiple people, whether via text, email, Microsoft Teams, or more?
- What has your office done to encourage camaraderie and togetherness — and what are your thoughts about it? For example, summer associates used to have to go to a zillion Firm events, and group lunches were a frequent thing — and you often came out of that summer with a lot of new work friends that often became your partners in crime for similar work events once you worked there.
- We’ve previously discussed the theory that “you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with” — if your work relationships have changed, do you feel like you yourself have changed in important ways such as ambition or professionalism?
- We’ve also previously discussed how to use friends of friends to network and get new jobs — have you felt that rules, etiquette, or custom are different, post-pandemic? Do you feel like your personal network is smaller than it was in 2019, or that your friends’ networks are smaller?
On the flip side — if those work friendships have suffered, have you strengthened other relationships in your life, or formed new “work friends” who you see in your daily life, such as people you met via yoga class or whatnot?
Psst: in the past, we’ve discussed friendships and politics, how to make friends as you get older, how to choose your friends, and 10 ways to make time for friends if you work a lot.
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