“Old money,” “steal wealth,” and “quiet luxury” are all buzzwords floating around right now. People are looking for a way to tap into these aesthetics, but many of them are looking right past the women who have already been doing it for decades: Upper East Side grandmothers. On a few recent scrolls through TikTok, I’ve noticed that this aesthetic is getting a lot of love, with fashion people piling on intentionally gaudy jewelry, oversize faux-fur coats, tweed jackets, and anything J.Crew.
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@thepouf
In order to learn more about what an Upper East Side grandmother truly is, I tapped a local. Christina Grasso, creative director, told me, “I lived on the Upper East Side for years, and even still when I find myself Uptown, I love the way many older women dress and present themselves.” She also gave me a bit of a capsule wardrobe to get the look, mentioning “a long faux-fur coat, a good pair of black cigarette pants, a crisp white button-down shirt or black turtleneck, pearls, and ballet flats.” This honestly sounds like my kind of uniform, so I did some more digging and discovered a few pieces below that you must see if you’re interested in embracing this aesthetic.
The Outfit Inspo
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@anoukyve
The simplest way to describe an Upper East Side grandmother is a woman who pairs a tweed jacket and Birkin bag with classic denim.
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@abimarvel
She lives for neutrals but isn’t afraid of a pop of color, especially if that color is red. This outfit would definitely get her stamp of approval.
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@sylviemus_
In her years of collecting fashion pieces and creating amazing outfits, she’s learned how to play with proportions. When it comes to her sense of style, expect the unexpected.
The Shopping List
Jenny Bird
Lyra Huggie Drop Earrings
$108
This is the twist on classic grandmother jewelry that she would buy into.
Mango
Patch Pocket Tweed Jacket
$129
This first item on a UES grandmother shopping list has got to be a tweed jacket.
Tory Burch
Hank Sneaker
$238
$138
Comfort is key, so these sneakers are a must if you’re trying to get in on this aesthetic.
Hermès
Togo Birkin 40 Etoupe
$12595
And how can I continue without mentioning her bag of choice?
Open Edit
Satin Column Maxi Skirt
$59
The longer the skirt, the better.
Open Edit
Regina Mary Jane Pointed Toe Flat
$59
Mary Janes and ballet flats might be the It buy for us right now, but she never stopped wearing them. A grandmother certainly does not have time for heels.
Saint Laurent
Faux Fur Long Coat
$15000
Saint Laurent designed the coat of her dreams, and I want in too.
Completedworks
+ Net Sustain P118 Recycled Gold Vermeil and Pearl Necklace
$310
Grandmothers love their pearls.
Anine Bing
Mikan Shirt
$200
$130
She’d look this chic going to bed, but she’d also make the most of her wardrobe by styling this item with every jacket in her closet.
Toteme
Faux Fur Coat
$1800
This group chooses faux-fur coats in all shapes and styles. This one would be perfect for the holidays.
Levi’s
Ribcage High Waist Wide Leg Jeans
$108
The New Yorker in her is never afraid to pull on a pair of jeans.
Reformation
Will Oversized Shirt
$128
A good button-down shirt wins.
Veronica Beard
Bentley Tweed Jacket
$698
A bold dash of purple is the vibe.
Reformation
Mason High Waist Wide Leg Pants
$178
I need these pants in my life.
Treasure & Bond
Vera Wide Leather Belt
$59
One of my English teachers was a grandmother, and she would wear a belt like this every single day.
Ramy Brook
Esther Cotton Blend Tweed Jacket
$695
$522
Silver is the perfect update on a classic tweed jacket.
Melie Bianco
Brigitte Large Satchel
$128
This color is perfect.
Topshop
Mid Length Faux Fur Coat
$162
Bring on all the fur.
Steve Madden
Annya Knee High Boot
$199
$109
Never be afraid of suede.
Favorite Daughter
The Fiona Wide Leg Pants
$228
These pants are viral on TikTok for a good reason.
Favorite Daughter
The Phoebe Houndstooth Double Breasted Blazer
$368
The three-piece suit is a UES grandmother staple.
Vince
Bias Satin Midi Skirt
$325
I’m in love with this colorway.
Toteme
T-Lock Textured-Leather Shoulder Bag
$1390
There are few new designers that are worth mentioning to her, but she’d be all ears about Toteme.
Mango
Fluid Trench Coat With Tie
$199
The trench coat she’s had since the ’80s still hasn’t gone out of style.
Mango
Leather-Effect Midi-Skirt With Belt
$129
This is the kind of leather she could get behind.
This post was published at an earlier date and has been updated.
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